“We need marriage counseling that works!” But, what kind of couples therapy works best? It’s a great question because your marriage/primary relationship is probably most important and impactful to you. It’s also a great question because so many people have horror stories about their experiences that sit coms and movies love to use it as a trope. “We need marriage counseling that works!”
But why do I love being an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist? Because it works so well! And I don’t know anything else that does!
How really wants to really just connect on a mental level? “Blah, blah, blah….did you get the kids to practice? Oh, ok. Night.” No! You want to connect on an emotional level! And who can do that if you constantly judge how somebody’s feeling? And who can connect with feelings if every single feeling you have is a fact and yet you are offended at mine?
This approach is so effective that in studies, it is 91% effective! Of course, we cannot have active ongoing abuse, affairs, or addictions. That stuff destroys love!
I am so excited to be trained in this approach and to be using it every day in my practice and marriage. I’m excited about the EFT World Summit coming to Vancouver in 2027 ! We will be in attendance looking to hone our skills for our relationship coaching and online marriage retreats.
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Blessings to you on your journey! It’s a marriage. It’s suppose to be hard work, but also a lot of blessing! Work hard, but be sure you have the right tools and someone showed you how to use them! Be a Better Partner. Build a Love That Lasts
